Jeho vyznanie manželke je hitom internetu: TOTO povedal o jej nedokonalom tele

Jeho vyznanie manželke je hitom internetu: TOTO povedal o jej nedokonalom tele Zdroj: Instagram/th3littlestavenger
Po troch deťoch sa jej postava zmenila a pôrody na nej zanechali nezmazateľné stopy. Napriek tomu ich neskrýva a podporuje v tom aj iné ženy.

Každá jedna žena sa po pôrode zmení. Niektorým sa podarí rýchlo dostať späť do formy, iným zostanú kilá navyše či strie už po celý život. Dôležité je uvedomiť si, akú úžasnú službu naše telá a bruchá dokázali.

Aj zmeny na tele môžu viesť k popôrodným depresiám...

Trojnásobná mamička Hayley Garnett je úspešná blogerka a fotografka a vďaka úprimným a neprikrášleným záberom sa snaží podporovať čerstvé matky, aby sa nehanbili za svoje telá, ale aby sa naučili byť na svoje nedostatky po pôrodoch pyšné.

Nie všetci sú však z jej záberov nadšení a ženy sa jej často pýtajú, či je pre svojho muža stále rovnako príťažlivá aj s extrémne vyťahanou kožou na striami.

"Myslím si, že na mojom bruchu nie je vôbec nič zlé, pretože stopy na ňom zanechali naše milované deti. Vďaka tomu ani na sekundu nezabudnem, že rástli v mojom tele a že dnes chodia po svete. Všetky moje deti sú skrátka moju súčasťou, navždy..." napísala  Hayley a neskôr pridala aj slová svojho manžela, ktoré dodali sebavedomie mnohým matkám.

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2017: We grew. It was the first time I ever shared my true postpartum with the world. Never had I ever been so excited to share a photo. My son asked me about the marks on my belly, questioning the changes. This inspired me to post about my truth. I was fighting to accept my “new normal” and gosh did this open the floodgates.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ 2018: We grew. One year postpartum my body looked and felt different in so many ways. I spent a year sharing all of my truths and insecurities- almost like an addiction. The more I shared, the more peace I felt. The more hearts I reached, the more my own heart filled. I found my purpose in this space. I didn’t cringe when my babies poked and prodded at my belly- I laughed along with them.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ 2019: We GLOW. Two years postpartum. My body is much the same as it was in 2018. The marks, the skin, the remnants of my pregnancy are still with me. While my body is similar- my MIND is what’s really made a difference. No longer do I need someone else’s permission to accept my body. To love my body. To respect my body. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I’ve made a promise to my myself. A promise to my children. I will never stand in front of the mirror, draped in shame, crying tears over a body that carried three babies to term. I will show them what It means to accept, love and respect our bodies. I will show them that their value extends far beyond that glimpse in the mirror. I will show them that there are so many reasons to appreciate their bodies, beyond how they may look.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I will show them TRUE worth.⁣ ⁣ *check my stories to see the very first one I ever posted !

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Najkrajšie vyznanie pre manželku

Jej manžel, Cody Garnett, sa vyjadril, že svoju manželku miluje rovnako, ako keď ju spoznal pred pätnástimi rokmi.

“Dôvody, pre ktoré ju milujem, nemajú nič spoločné so žiadnou časťou jej tela. Miloval som ju po pôrode nášho syna a aj potom keď sa narodili naše dvojičky.

Stále vonia tak úžasne, má rovnako krásny úsmev, bystrú myseľ, zmysel pre humor a ďalšie skvelé vlastnosti, ako dievča, do ktorého som sa pred rokmi zamiloval. Jej telo vyzerá po pôrodoch inak, čo je absolútne normálne, keďže vynosilo naše tri úžasné deti.

Necítim sa byť hrdina za to, že milujem svoju ženu aj s nedokonalosťami na tele. Sú to práve nedokonalosti, ktoré robia svet zaujímavým, netúžim mať doma bábiku Barbie, bola by to nuda. Ako by sme bez tých stôp na tele vedeli, čím všetkým si náš život prešiel?

Moja žena nie je dokonalá, a preto ju milujem. Žiadna zmena na jej tele nezmení to, čo k nej cítim... "

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Him: “You look great”⁣ Me: “Oh thank y—“⁣ Him: “Did you lose weight? Your face looks slimmer.”⁣ ⁣ This is a recent interaction that I had with a male friend that approached me at the gym. ⁣ ⁣ My words were cut off by questions that I was not expecting , ones that quite honestly gave me big feelings.⁣ ⁣ As someone in recovery from an eating disorder I will say that my initial emotional response was excitement- because that’s something that always made me feel good in the past.⁣ Also something that drove me to keep starving myself and spend hours in the gym.⁣ ⁣ But after those first five seconds I felt so much MORE.⁣ Things like frustration.⁣ Anger.⁣ Sadness.⁣ ⁣ I realize that he meant it as a compliment.⁣ That he assumed it was something that would feel good to hear.⁣ And maybe to him that is the sole reason he goes to the gym- and he just assumes that’s why anyone else does as well.⁣ ⁣ But what he didn’t think about is this:⁣ ⁣ 1.Not everyone goes to the gym to lose weight.⁣ ⁣ 2.When you comment on something like the size or shape of an ever changing body- that compliment is CONDITIONAL. It insinuates that maybe you didn’t look great before.⁣ ⁣ It can create intense fears around weight gain. If we don’t get that compliment the next time it could make us wonder if maybe we should lose weight or change something up- because obviously we don’t look good anymore.⁣ ⁣ I know that I cannot speak for everyone. And I know that I’m still learning- always learning, too.⁣ ⁣ But what I know now is that I will never comment on someone’s body unless they bring it up first.⁣ ⁣ Instead I can say things like “you look so happy! How are you feeling, how’s life?”. ⁣ ⁣ I never want to be a source of anxiety to someone in regards to how they feel about themselves.⁣ ⁣ Because thinness does not equal greatness.⁣ The size of our bodies does not determine the size of our hearts.⁣ We should not feel as if our beauty is conditional.⁣ We should not feel as if we need permission to love our bodies in all of their glory.⁣ ⁣ Now I want to know how this makes you feel? Do you struggle with people commenting on your body? Do you agree that a “compliment” about our weight feels backhanded?

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Today marks one decade of Hayley & Cody.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Our story is epic.⁣⁣⁣⁣ It’s exciting.⁣⁣⁣⁣ It’s funny.⁣⁣⁣⁣ It’s heartwarming.⁣⁣⁣⁣ It’s freaking beautiful.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ BUT.⁣⁣⁣⁣ It’s also boring.⁣⁣⁣⁣ It’s hard.⁣⁣⁣⁣ It’s dramatic.⁣⁣⁣⁣ And stressful.⁣⁣⁣⁣ And ugly.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I would love to say that I’ve never doubted us.⁣⁣⁣⁣ That through the hardest of times- I KNEW we would make it.⁣⁣⁣⁣ But I cannot do that.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Because there was a time a few months ago.⁣⁣⁣⁣ We both sat in the kitchen.⁣⁣⁣⁣ I was sobbing uncontrollably.⁣⁣⁣⁣ You were so frustrated- at the end of your rope.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ And I remember thinking.⁣⁣⁣⁣ “This is it.”⁣⁣⁣⁣ This is where you leave me.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ But you didn’t.⁣⁣⁣⁣ And you won’t.⁣⁣⁣⁣ And I just want to say thank you.⁣⁣⁣⁣ Because you’ve been the greatest teacher.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ You taught me that marriage doesn’t have the same definition for everyone.⁣⁣⁣⁣ That even though we met as kids—that didn’t mean we had an expiration date.⁣⁣⁣⁣ That our love is bigger than my anxiety.⁣⁣⁣⁣ That it’s bigger than our fears and our insecurities.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ You taught me that love does not require perfection.⁣⁣⁣⁣ Rather, it thrives on imperfections.⁣⁣⁣⁣ It lies waiting, in those small moments of doubt.⁣⁣⁣⁣ Armed with trust, ready to fight for each other.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ And I cannot thank you enough.⁣⁣⁣⁣ For trusting me with your heart.⁣⁣⁣⁣ For making me feel seen and heard.⁣⁣⁣⁣ For giving me the three most precious gifts.⁣⁣⁣⁣ The best parts of both us.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I’m glad I didn’t die before I met you.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ *p.s. I’ve recorded myself reading these words in my stories, in case you want to see a hot mess 😆! P.p.s. I added the photo of our wedding vows from 10 years ago because they are just so US 🥰. 📷: @mind_body_coffee.

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The word brave is an adjective defined as “ready to face and endure danger or pain; showing courage”. Today I’m celebrating with @kindredbravely to really emphasize just how much bravery it takes to live your life postpartum. We give our entire self to our kids-our body, our heart, our soul—all of it. It comes so naturally- the intense need to protect. But I would venture to say that if I complimented any one of you with words like “you’re bravery is admirable, mama”- you would likely brush it off. Because this is your life, this is what you have to do. Sometimes when it’s our second nature we don’t feel the strength in those words or in our journey. But gosh I hope you take a moment to really think about everything that you have been through and continue to go through. Every moment of pain, every hard decision, all of the lost sleep—these are all things that we power through. We get up and do it again the next day. And the day after that. If you don’t consider that bravery, then maybe you’ve been reading the wrong dictionary. Because mama, you are BRAVE! ⁣ ⁣ Use coupon code “HAYLEY20” for 20% off- link is in my bio! #bebravely #kindredbravely # BraveMomAd

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